Anonymous said: In your opinion- since I was drinking and flirting with a guy it's my fault he kept going (after i said to stop) and took my virginity?
I don’t really know your situation. But for the guy, if you didn’t do refuse it forcefully but only said “stop” and didn’t do anything after he kept going. Then for him, you allowed it which means you accepted sex for him. You could go away, leave that place if you really didn’t want it simply. For you, you have said stop, but he kept going. So it feels like it’s his fault, but if you were in a situation where you could simply leave, and go away without him stopping you forcefully. Then it’s both’s fault. Not only him then.